So you’ve put a desire out into the universe that you would like to manifest or attract into your life, but then it begins to looks and feel like everyone else around you is getting that very thing, except for YOU.
Most of us have experienced this at some point in our lives before.
And it really isn’t that you begrudge anyone else receiving love, happiness, success, wealth and great opportunities but when this happens, it can leave us feeling left out, not good enough and frankly a little sad, angry and even resentful, right?
I recently shared one of my own personal experiences with this in an episode on my podcast channel Food For Thought
, but about a year and a half ago, I had something that I decided I was ready to manifest and attract into my life. A desire I had ignored for many years before that. And sure enough the moment I put it out there, just about EVERYONE around me was getting that very thing, except for ME!
And I was really
wanting and trying to be happy for them and celebrate with them, but it felt a little “forced”. Because deep down it really felt like a punch in my stomach and a “stuff-you”
from the universe each time.
This sent me into a thought pattern that left me feeling absolutely horrible!
“I’m not a jealous person, nor do I begrudge anyone achieving or receiving good things in their life, so why the heck am I feeling this way?”
I asked myself.
Turning inward to investigate this was the best thing I could have done!
It helped me to grow, evolve, identify and heal some serious limiting beliefs I had, but it also helped me to celebrate for those around me who were getting the things I was wanting to attract, and begin to attract those things into my own life as well.
You see, all things are energy, and so are we.
Energy is how we attract the things we want into our lives.
And because of the thoughts I was thinking due to my limiting beliefs,
it caused some serious negative and low vibration emotions inside of me which was literally making me UNATTRACTIVE to the very thing I was trying to attract into my life because I wasn’t an energetic match for it.
Our beliefs cause our thoughts and our thoughts cause our emotions which in turn creates our energetic frequency that we vibrate at, which then attracts similar energetic frequencies to us.
HERE’S HOW TO TACKLE THIS:
If you’ve been struggling to manifest or attract a specific desire into your life, and perhaps everyone else around you seems to be getting that very thing that you have been wanting, the answer is to start with GETTING A CHECK-UP FROM THE NECK UP!
Pause for a second to turn inward and investigate what you are busy thinking and feeling.
What are you making this mean about you, life, love, success or whatever it is you are trying to attract and manifest into your life?
How is this story you are telling yourself about it making you feel?
Now QUESTION THAT!
-> Can you say that the story you are telling yourself about it is 100% true?
-> Is there even a 1% chance that this could NOT be the truth? – Find evidence of how this could possibly not be the truth, even if its just 1 example.
Now change your perspective on how you’ve been viewing it and FLIP THE SCRIPT by telling yourself a new truth and story about it.
Notice how your emotions almost instantly shift to a higher vibration and how that heavy weight lifts off of you from the previous false story your mind told you about that situation or thing
By shifting your thoughts and emotions, you’re already shifting into becoming an energetic match for that thing you are trying to manifest and attract. YES, IT REALLY IS THAT EASY!
As I mentioned earlier in this blog post I recently dove deeper into this topic in a podcast episode on my Podcast Channel Food For Thought
IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN:
How to consciously ensure that you are an energetic match for the thing you wish to attract.
What could be holding you back and resisting/blocking the very thing that you are trying to manifest.
How to handle it when someone else has or is getting the very thing that you wanted or have been trying to manifest or attract into your own life.
How to FLIP THE SCRIPT and change your perspective on the situation.
If you are ready to start attracting and manifesting your desires with ease and joy, you can go and have a listen to this podcast episode “When they have or get what you want” on the following links:
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Much love and blessings